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Showing posts with label My Life. Show all posts

An Update


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One of my New Year's goals was to blog more. I said I would blog things "at some point". So here I am, at "some point" to catch up on things.

Mike - Seriously? This man is my Super Man. He is the most loving, wonderful, supportive, helpful, hard working husband on the face of the planet. He works full time, busts his booty in school (which he hates but does it anyways), and he is 100% helpful with the kids and around the house. I love him and am so grateful for him every day. He loves and adores his children. He especially loves the stage Preston is at because he is so much fun. Mike loves to jump on the bed with him, wrestle him and really do anything fun with him.
Preston - I have been a terrible mom lately (more on that later) but he's still amazing despite my mom failure. He is SO happy all 99% of the time. He goes to sleep without any whines or complaints, he does what he's told, he has never done anything destructive on purpose and he sleeps in until 8:30/9:00 every day. Preston brings me so much joy. He copies everything we say (so we have to be careful with our 'dang its' and 'oh shoots'). We do a preschool program online that he has learned SO much from. He is like a little sponge that absorbs everything and he has fun without even knowing he's learning. To him, it's games and fun so he actually asks to do it every single day. Before we started he knew his shapes, basic colors, how to count to 20, his ABC's, animals, etc. but he struggled with a few things too. Within a day or two he showed significant improvement on the things he struggled with.
He leaves Madison alone for the most part but occasionally when she's in her bumbo he will go over to her, put his hands over his face and play peek-a-boo with her. Sometimes when she is on her blanket on the floor he will go lay next to her (or on top of her) and pretend to wrestle with her. He really just moves around, makes grunting noise, says and occasional "hi-yah!" but hardly touches her. He is obsessed with the show 'Octonauts' on Disney Channel. It's about these sea explorers and each episode is about an adventure and new sea creature. He LOVES sharks, whales, dolphins, and pretty much anything to do with water and the sea. So for his 3rd birthday we have planned a trip to Sea World San Antonio. He will lose his mind. He turns 3 on a Sunday this year and we will be at Sea World the Friday and Saturday before...so technically he will be under three and will get in FREE. That's planning right there!

Madison - I have figured her out...I think. After reading countless books (Baby Wise, Happiest Baby on the Block, etc) I realized Madison is a stubborn little diva who does what she wants. I tried SO hard to put her on a schedule. I let her cry it out, I tried to space out her feedings to every three hours, I did everything the books said. Nothing. I was working 3x as hard but seeing no improvement or results. So I prayed long and hard about what to do and what was best for my baby and how to help her sleep and eat better. I feel like I received a pretty distinct answer of "Listen to her. She will tell you." So I feed her when she is hungry, she sleeps when she is sleepy and I rock her to sleep. She eats about every 3 hours during the day, doesn't nap the best but it's really not bad, she goes to bed around midnight/12:30am which can be difficult but currently she goes to bed and then doesn't wake up again until 8:30/9:00. If Preston was getting up at 6:30/7:00 I would have a hard time but they both sleep in so I sleep in too. I don't mind it at all. It works for us.
She is cooing, smiling, and if you work really hard for it she might even giggle. She is a complete Momma's girl. She loves her Daddy and is 100% content with him but if ANYONE else is holding her (yes, even my parents and Mike's mom) she will give the biggest pout face and start crying. Most times if people hold her they have to turn her out away from them so she doesn't see their faces and start to cry. She LOVES Preston. If I need to do something, I sit her in her bumbo wherever Preston is because she will just watch him play. She still nurses really well. We went to her four month appointment and she was 14lbs and she's wearing 6month clothes. She's cute and chubby.

Most of these photos are take from Uncle Bob's Farm. Well, technically he's my mom's Uncle Bob but we all call him Uncle Bob since that's the easiest. Uncle Bob is the Dallas, TX temple President and has most of his kids with their families here in TX as well. I am so glad we started doing get-togethers with our distant cousins otherwise I wouldn't have met one of my best friends and college roommate Scarlet.
Out at the farm we ate yummy food, rode 4 wheelers, chit chatted, my dad and sister went in the paddle boat, then we had a dance out at the barn. Fun night!

I will get to more posts another time but at least I gave a little update for now.

Tender Moments


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I love catching these sweet moments without him even seeing me....well, until the last picture.



Mom of Two


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Being a mom to two kids is awesome, exhausting, wonderful, interesting, and much more. At first Preston was really not sure about Madison. In the hospital he wouldn't go near Madison almost as if he was scared of her. For the first few days he would go near her and possibly even give her a kiss on the head if we asked him but that was about it. He grew very attached to Mike and if Mike ever held Madison, even for a second, Preston would come behind me and while pushing me towards Mike he would say "Go Mama, hold da baby". He wanted me to hold Madison so that as soon as Madison was out of Mike's arms, Preston could then reach to have Mike hold him. He didn't like Daddy holding the baby. Luckily that started to change and a couple days later we bribed Preston with some candy so that he would hold Madison and hopefully see that she wasn't so bad. So he did and he's wanted to hold her ever since. Unless his toys are more interesting.




 We've all been sleepy and tired...






Preston is such a goober...




 Occasionally both kids want me at the same time...
 I've been tired but it's been Preston who has made this transition a lot easier than well...than it should be.
Since Madison's arrival, Preston has been sleeping in until 9am, 10am, 11am, and a couples times even 12 o'clock. He goes to bed at 9pm, sometimes 9:30pm almost every night and he typically wakes up between 10-11am. I don't know why. Maybe a growth spurt or maybe the Lord knows that I will be a terrible mother if I don't get some help with some sleep. Madison has been a little bit of a night owl from about 11pm-2am. No matter what we do, we can't keep her awake from her 8pm feeding until her 11pm feeding. She will NOT wake up. We try to keep her awake so that she will sleep from 11pm until 2am and then so on but NOPE! This girl is stubborn. So, needless to say, when I am up until 2:30 then up again from 5am-5:30am it helps to not only have Preston asleep so I can sleep until Madison gets up at 8am (if he woke up at 7am I would be up then too) but then on top of that, Madison eats from 8-8:30am and then usually falls back asleep and I get too as well because Preston is still asleep. I then wake up when Preston does (about 10:30am) and then I'm up for the day. Now, Preston does NOT nap when on days he sleeps in but honestly I would not have it any other way. I would rather continue to sleep from the night then try to get in a nap IF my kids miraculously nap at the same time. Preston sleeping in has TRULY been a lifesaver.
Also, Preston has been so independent and so understanding of me needing to take care of the baby and he's actually a big help. If I'm feeding Madison and he wants to watch a different show he will bring me the remote, if I can't reach something he gets it for me, if I drop something he will pick it up for me, if I'm busy and Madison is crying he will go over and gently rub her head and say "shhh. It's ok baby, no cryning". He has never been destructive or gotten into anything he's not supposed to so it's wonderful to trust him COMPLETELY while I am changing Madison's diaper or I can even have Madison asleep, put his snacks and drink on the coffee table for him and I tell him "mommy is going to go take a shower. Be a good boy" and I end up getting a shower for the day. I always come out of the shower to find Madison still asleep and Preston eating snacks, playing with his toys and occasionally glancing at Mickey Mouse on T.V. He's amazing. He really, REALLY is amazing and I am so grateful for him and I try so hard to be the mom he deserves.

PS- As I am writing this blog, it is 10:56am and he is still asleep. AWESOME!

Slacking!


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Holy cow I can't believe I have not posted since August!!! Sheesh! Needless to say the past few months have kind of flown by in the blink of an eye and I can't believe the months just came and went so quickly. I have a few blog posts to do and this one will be the recap over the last few months and then there will be more specific posts too.

To summarize what I've missed...

Mommy and Preston time


Is that hair?

Date nights

Celebrating my birthday along with Paxton's and Abby's at Sambuca 360.

Little sickie

Hot summer= lots of time in the sprinklers

Baby tan lines

Water baby


20 weeks pregnant

Trips to Main event with the kids I nannied


Fun at the playground

Fell head first into a door

Momma's helper

Family trip for donuts

ZOO


























Such a goober


Learning to take care of babies

The carousel is a must at the mall
...and the Disney store





Melting Pot for Jamin and Apil's 10 year anniversary










Brubaker wedding where I was able to see my high school bestie!

23 Weeks

Happy Birthday Mike (32)

Pedialyte pops for the sickie


Nana and Papa's







Papa's little worker



Our backyard friends
One of his favorite things is to help mama bake
Family movie





Pinata for Halloween

28 Weeks
Lexi's Birthday















A family in my parent's ward has a big ranch and they were hosting a horse auction that we went to.
He dresses himself...he's sick here...again.


And sick again

Ashley's wedding! 10/20/2012


Went brunette












32.5 Weeks

Lowe's trip in jammies. Oh yeah!
35 Weeks


Driving the kids to school I was rear ended...








You improvise when Mama forgets your jacket

Trip to Hobby Lobby


36 Weeks 4 Days



Sick yet again
My awesome friend April was such a huge help in so many ways with preparing for Madison's arrival so I took her to a Mav's game. Mike had a customer give him tickets for AWESOME seats and I had plans with April that night anyways so he let me take April and he stayed home with Preston. If you even know my husband (crazy sports fan and obsessed with the Mavs) then you know that's true love.


39 Weeks